Do church sports count as fellowship?
Judy Lee | AUGUST 27, 2019 | 2 MIN READ
Every summer, my church gathers at a park and plays friendly matches of soccer, tennis, and frisbee for a weekend of sports and fellowship. It’s great to see our community come together while having fun and getting active. But is it really fellowship? Does playing sports together count, or is there more to it?
In Acts 4, the early believers are said to be of “one mind and soul” and to have “everything in common.” In the present day, we still pool our resources through offerings, but it’s not easy to have everything in common. We’ve grown so big and scattered in our individual lives. That’s why fellowship was designed to unite and strengthen the body outside of Sunday worship. Through spending time together, we’re kept accountable to not only grow in our own walks with God, but to support one another’s in love.
Fellowship within Christ’s church should be edifying, unifying, and inclusive of everyone regardless of race, gender, or personality. It’s also a chance for the members of the church to be intentional about building their relationships with one another. It’s perfectly fine — great, even — to play sports with your friends at church. But it takes intentionality to justify an activity as “fellowship.”
Sports remind us of the zeal and perseverance with which we’re called to preach the gospel. Used the right way, it’s an opportunity to invite them into the church community through a common passion. But if we use it the wrong way, we can get absorbed in winning or simply playing with our friends rather than building relationships. It can be easy to forget these goals of intentionality and inclusivity.
Daniel Pak organizes our church’s summer sports fellowship. He said:
Besides welcoming newcomers, Daniel also believes sports fellowship can bridge across members of the church who may otherwise never interact. In addition, cross-ministry fellowship is crucial to building up the church as a whole.
Building relationships within the church isn’t easy. Perhaps that’s one of the reasons God gifted us with sports. It can allow strangers to break boundaries of awkwardness by getting active and having fun with one another.
If you’ve been gifted with the love or ability for sports, you have a unique opportunity to build up the church. And if you struggle with competition, consider your heart. Remembering why we fellowship — our ultimate identity as a family in Christ—can keep us from being prideful in victory or disheartened in loss. Remember who it’s really for, and you might be able to enjoy sports in a new light.
Judy Lee is a English Writing major at Biola University. She serves for the Youth Ministry at New Life Presbyterian Church of Orange County, and is a lover of all things Shane & Shane, iced coffee, Asian food, and the color peach. She is currently working on her first novel. Her fashion blogs and writing can be found on her Instagram and website, The Urban Royal.